Dear Jen,

I seldom tell you how much I love you, how much I admire your strength, how beautiful, loving, and kind you are, and how intelligent and truly incredible you are.

We’ve been through some “interesting” times together. We’ve laughed together. We’ve cried in the shower together. We’ve used substances to dull our pain. We’ve created toxic behaviors to avoid deep healing.

I should’ve told you to not buy into the BS stories. To not worry about what others think, and not to be ashamed of who you are.

In doing so, I said cruel things to shame you. I said you’re not enough, you don’t matter, and you’re not worthy. I said you’re not beautiful, you’re flawed (even broken), and no one will ever love you.

I’ve said things I wouldn’t dare say to another person. You’ve taken everything on. You’ve listened to this as if it were the truth and internalized everything to the depths of your soul.

I left you to seek attention and love from others. I told you that to be worthy, you need someone to validate that worth. I told you all this crap when it was ME who should have loved and held you all this time.

For ALL of this - I’m truly sorry!

You will never be alone again. I see you. I see your love and light. You bring such magic to the world. For this, I celebrate you. I think you’re Wonderful, and I love you!

Your Aligned Self
❤️

Dear Jen,

I seldom tell you how much I love you, how much I admire your strength, how beautiful, loving, and kind you are, and how intelligent and truly incredible you are.

We’ve been through some “interesting” times together. We’ve laughed together. We’ve cried in the shower together. We’ve used substances to dull our pain. We’ve created toxic behaviors to avoid deep healing.

I should’ve told you to not buy into the BS stories. To not worry about what others think, and not to be ashamed of who you are.

In doing so, I said cruel things to shame you. I said you’re not enough, you don’t matter, and you’re not worthy. I said you’re not beautiful, you’re flawed (even broken), and no one will ever love you.

I’ve said things I wouldn’t dare say to another person. You’ve taken everything on. You’ve listened to this as if it were the truth and internalized everything to the depths of your soul.

I left you to seek attention and love from others. I told you that to be worthy, you need someone to validate that worth. I told you all this crap when it was ME who should have loved and held you all this time.

For ALL of this - I’m truly sorry!

You will never be alone again. I see you. I see your love and light. You bring such magic to the world. For this, I celebrate you. I think you’re Wonderful, and I love you!

Your Aligned Self
❤️